Psychologist Christopher Shen: How to mentally prepare for a Grand Final

We are building up to what should be a fantastic A-League Men Grand Final, as Central Coast Mariners and Melbourne Victory take centre stage in Gosford, vying for the 2023/24 title.

It’s an exciting but also nervous time for the players as they will be eager to do well and lift the trophy – after another thrilling A-Leagues season comes to an end,

In this article, I outline the emotions a player will feel, and how to develop positive habits, set up for success, and manage external factors.

What happens when someone is nervous and managing the range of emotions:

There will be a wide variety of emotions experienced by players – ranging from anxiety, worry, concern, and distress, all the way to the other end of the ‘stress spectrum’ involving eustress – which is the positive stress that’s the butterflies in the stomach and the slight nervous activation that makes us excited and helps us play well.

In these circumstances, it’s very helpful for individuals to have an activity or habit that can create calm and relaxation for them, and an activity I recommend is mindfulness meditation, with activities such as yoga practices or deep breathing exercises.

I absolutely endorse players establishing helpful habits and regimes that help evoke a set of emotions and thoughts to play at their best.

My caveat is for that habit not to be burdensome and unhelpful – some superstitions can actually be quite unhelpful. An interesting example is watching tennis champion Rafael Nadal with his self-admitted obsessive compulsions to arrange his belongings between games, or the pulling of his shorts between points.

The dilemma of battling injury and not being 100% fit:

There’s a lot of circumstances that can be quite uncertain and chaotic for players.

When thinking about players who are substitutes, they may be endeavouring to manage their trepidation and anxiety about whether they will get chosen in the starting line-up.

It’s really helpful for those players to have a habit that can create positivity and disrupt chaotic thinking – which positive psychology skills of gratitude and savouring.

Regular starting players who are nearing the end of their career may be more prone to anxiety and worrisome thoughts. These players may be contemplating retirement, compared to the freedom of youth where they may think and feel they are indestructible.

Another aspect of this may be players who have a looming trial with an international team, where they are understandably concerned about having the opportunity to successfully perform while being scouted, and wanting to play as best as possible.

These thoughts and emotions have a big influence before a championship game.

How teams can build a dynasty rather than a one-off Grand Final win:

Sustained success in team sports is historically a combination of high-performing talent, and strong high-performance programs – including strength and conditioning, rehabilitation, nutrition, psychology, player wellbeing and development, and coaching.

Scientific research demonstrates it is helpful to create and enshrine a culture of agreed team behaviours and practices that lead towards good habits which influence sustained successful team performance.

Teams who enjoy sustained success season after season often have a culture where players take responsibility for their own preparation and are diligent in-between seasons to stay professional in the off-season through their conditioning and behaviours. They are also responsible for their diet, rehabilitation, craft and skill development, and rest.

It’s also important for all the players to demand and reinforce adherence to good standards of playing, performance, training, rehabilitation, and positive and respectful behaviour towards all players, coaches, and officials in the squad – including those in development teams.

Managing social media and unwanted comments or posts:

I recommend that teams and individuals have helpful ways of being able to manoeuvre their way through the digital platforms.

Players, coaches, and officials should receive instruction and training in when and how to access and use social media. There will be times immediately after a loss or when out of the team due to selction, injury ,or illness where accessing social media may be deleterious to their mood and thinking.

To block out the negative noise completely is not sustainable in 2024, so it’s about how to helpfully and succeffully navigate around the digital platforms and make it work in a positive way.

This can extend towards appearances which are scrutinised by the public and reported in media – you only have to look at Kansas City Chiefs kicker Harrison Butker who recently gave a commencement speech where his negative and harmful comments on LGBTIQA+ communities and women’s careers went against the respectful messaging presented by the NFL and Kansas City Chiefs.

This is why media training is so important, to protect the reputation of not only the player but also the team and league they represent.

Conclusion:

Achieving great success in the A-Leagues is not only within the physical battle, but it is also about how the mind works mentally.

Developing strong positive habits and sticking to them is an integral part of elite athlete preparation, extending to how they present themselves in front of media or handling social platforms.

I wish every success to the players, coaches, officials, and fans of both teams in this week’s A-League Men’s Grand Final.

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Fremantle City Launches 2026 NPL Season with Focus on Youth and Community

Fremantle City FC has officially launched its 2026 New Balance NPL WA Men’s and Women’s seasons, championing a community-first approach that puts young players at the heart of the club’s future.In a vibrant ceremony at Hilton Park, club juniors presented first-team shirts to senior Men’s and Women’s squads, symbolising a critical pathway from grassroots to elite football within the Fremantle family.

“This is very important for us- our juniors presenting shirts to our NPL Women’s and Men’s teams,” said Club President Tony Estrano. “2026 is the ninth year of our academy, running from under-nines up to under-16s, for both boys and girls. Today’s shirt handover by our Under 13s Academy and JDL teams shows these kids there is a real pathway to the first team.”

Head coach Samantha Geddes has reaffirmed the sentiment, emphasising Freo’s commitment to club unity: “Getting the whole club involved like this is brilliant. It’s great for our young girls to see that connection to the senior team and for senior players to inspire and support the next generation.”

Momentum and Ambition for 2026

Fremantle’s Women’s side enters 2026 riding high after a historic State Cup triumph last season, with captain Annabelle Leek setting her sights even higher: “Winning the State Cup was massive. We’re ready to build on that momentum, with new signings and a renewed focus on finishing in the top four.”

On the men’s side, after avoiding relegation last year and freshening up the roster with key signings, captain Cam Edwards is confident: “We’re ambitious, and with this group, we know we can put on a good show.”

Fremantle City has committed itself to turning club culture and youth pathways into on-field results, inspiring the next generation to wear the crest at every level.

Level the Playing Field: Football Unites at Parliament House to Back Grassroots Growth

Victorian football’s most influential voices gathered at Parliament House last Wednesday to officially launch the Level the Playing Field campaign. The initiative is a united call to strengthen grassroots infrastructure and ensure every child has access to safe, modern facilities.

Hosted by Football Victoria alongside members of the Parliamentary Friends of Football, the event brought together MPs from across the political spectrum, A-League representatives, community clubs and emerging players, reinforcing one clear message: when football thrives, Victoria thrives.

Football Victoria Chair Dr Angela Williams delivered a powerful address, drawing on her professional experience to underscore sport’s social impact.

“You belong when you play football,” she said. “It is the same healthy place to play — regardless of race, religion or background. Young people in sport are healthier and safer. That’s what this is about.”

The campaign comes at a pivotal moment for the game. Participation across Victoria has surged to more than 127,000 registered players, with female participation experiencing significant growth in recent years. A legacy of the recent success of the Australian women’s national team.

Yet, as speakers emphasised, infrastructure has not kept pace.

Former Socceroo and community advocate Carl Valeri reflected on the contrast between elite and grassroots environments, highlighting the importance of stronger community facilities.

“When you walk into a community facility, there’s the same love and passion,” Valeri said. “But the infrastructure doesn’t always match. That infrastructure can turn away the kids who decide to play later, or those who might be facing challenges at home. For me, community football is important because we have to keep kids involved in the game.”

 Image Credit: Football Victoria/Avellino Photography 

Current and emerging players echoed the sentiment. Young footballer Kara Crnac highlighted how quality facilities build confidence and create opportunity, while coach and talent pathway representative Maddison Kamolins stressed the importance of safe, inclusive environments.

Image Credit: Football Victoria/Avellino Photography

Government representatives acknowledged more than $100 million in recent football facility investment, including the state’s landmark commitment to Home of the Matildas at La Trobe University, while recognising further support is required at the grassroots level.

Football Victoria CEO Dan Birrell described the campaign as both collaborative and forward-looking.

“We’re going to be visible; we’re going to be active and we’re going to be strong advocates for our clubs,” he said. “Every elite career begins at a community ground. If we want stronger communities and stronger representation on the world stage, we must invest where it all begins.”

With the AFC Women’s Asian Cup on the horizon and continued momentum across domestic competitions, the message from Parliament was clear: the next generation of Matildas and Socceroos is already here.

Now, it’s time to level the playing field, sign the petition here.

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